Hi people, I failed to mention I will be talking A LOT about Nkem ( my king, my rock) :D
So today, I could not resist the urge to not make this about him. I failed to post something for him on his birthday which was days ago...I hereby appease the gods of 'one yoruba state'.
These are a few things that got me drawn to him and they are qualities I did not know I would ever seriously admire(perhaps cos one has to get to a certain stage to know these things). Sometime ago my idle man would be a TDH - Tall Dark and Handsome, with mad abs, sagging(what do you call it) LIL WAYNEish or even FRESH PRINCE OF BEL-AIREish(all blings and flavorlicious) I'm not your regular fairytale kinda girl. *not interested look*
So Nkem is a breathe of fresh air, a break out of the norm.
• CHARACTER
Nkem is as real as the word. I got to understand and appreciate this and before I knew it, I was already very comfortable opening up and saying things as they come to me.
Nkem has his hot and cold days oh, do not get me wrong me, but his alter ego is a very charming unbelievably fantastic gentleman (held under duress to type that...lol)
• MORALS
This does not entail being religious to know right from wrong, everyone knows what's right and what's wrong, whatever option one decides to take is totally up to him.
Nkem has high morals and I do get away with bad juvenile behaviours...sometimes
Other times, I get spanked for it.
Mr. Do good :p *okbye*
• NKEM & HIS FATHER
Nkem does not take communicating with his Creator lightly, whatever he needs, he asks. In everything he dedicates more time to the Almighty.
Through him, I have been able to read the Bible more. We have Bible study and pray together and for each other. Sometimes he sends me verses from the Bible to either praise me or brighten my day. (I get inspired to do same)
• HIS LAUGHTER
How do I start to explain this so laymen can understand? :p
Well, it just takes the world off my shoulders, there's some nerve calming-wide smile effect it has on me. (NEVER applicable to any other person, so do not go close to him and ask he laughs :| I will find you and I will grill you, for my monkey)
• WORDS OF WISDOM
I read some quote which said 'weigh your words, before spitting them out'. Nkem is careful with words. He knows the right things to say at the right time.
• QUALITY
If he were a woman, I would be so jealous of him. His taste for excellence is on a scale of its own. (That's how he laughed at the youtube video link I sent him to watch a review on a mini washing machine I saw on an online store, and said he saw someone use a bucket to wash shirt. *someone hide me*) :( I tend to forget I'm no longer single, but building my own home.
• RESPECT
He respects my opinions and never looks down on my choices, instead he explain why P cannot work alongside J.
He respects others too and no judging.
• EXPERIENCE
Talk about been there, seen, done all. My boo is an expertise at things, so most times I take the back seat and watch him handle issues.
• LOVE
*clears throat* Nkem...*still clearing throat* I think the kolanut has gone into the wrong... Ehen, so as I was saying before the kola... He is not so big with words of emotions, but its so clear from his expressions, his silence, his laughter. What he cannot man up to say, he makes up for via other means only I am privileged to know :p
I can go on and on oh, but I'm sure by now I could fill my google notepad with praises of Nkem, so I will drop my golden pen in my golden basket of love*in an igbo man's accent'... LOL
When one finds love, he/she automatically becomes a philosopher or a poet, in my case I'm all and more. Can a girl who's blessed this much not sing it?
...XoXo...
Marlyne




3 comments:
Who is Nkem? Is he real? Does he exist? Can someone be that good?
Yes sire, someone can actually be soo good :)
Awww
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